Top Blog: TERRI SUMMERS relaxed after having sex he said that he had managed to have lunch with the soccer player, Margie. He also said that he could tell from her body language that she was a virgin; was actually more interested in soccer and school than guys and sex. So he knew he had to move carefully and slowly. Then after another couple days he said that he'd actually managed to kiss her and she'd responded, seemed to like it. Different, he said, to be working at seducing a girl. He'd never been with a virgin, never been a girl's first. I told him she sounded very nice and he shouldn't mislead her, shouldn't hurt her by seducing and dumping her. He said he was serious about her but wasn't sure he could be serious about any female.